ok...

i am going to be a shining beacon to all married guys... you can have your cake.. and eat it too... and eat her cake as well... and i will explain to you how...  as my life progresses i am sure that i will be taking the road less traveled in my marriage... i will do it all differently.. MARRIAGE WILL NOT CHANGE ME... I WILL NOT SETTLE DOWN...

 

let me ask you this question:

 

your future wife in a few days is having her best friend and her kid come to stay at your house... he is a toddler and your house is FAR from child-proof... you are working on big outdoor projects for your wedding reception to be held shortly and you dont really have time to do the little childproofing projects... what do you do when your future wife in a couple days tells you all these things you have to do in the day while she is at work when you already have your plate full of hard outside projects (like fence building) and you get seriously bad vibed by her when she comes home and you didn't do a single thing that she asked for?

 

tell me... what do you do?...